I totally freaked out and said-- "Who told you that word? That is not a nice thing to say. Where did you hear that word?" (In my mind I am writing the letter I am going to send to her "Baptist" preschool...) when she says. "Mom, a "cooker lady" is a lady who cooks the food for everyone."
Oh. A cooker lady.
My bad.
More pics (and two videos)here: http://picasaweb.google.com/ng.mangine/ACookerLady