That's how I would describe today. Nico is basically always just seconds away from a meltdown. He usually does really, really well, but that can al change very quickly, with no warning or predictability. In many ways I feel like we are walking on eggshells around him so he doesn't get upset. Tantrums can last anywhere from just a couple minutes to an hour or more. I ache for him to understand how much we love him.
He also definitely gets grumpy when he's hungry, but he's not all that interested in most foods we try with him, so it's good he likes Pediasure. In fact, before bed tonight he drank two containers of it right in a row. That's almost 500 calories (-- or 10 WW points for anyone who's curious! :) So we know he's getting nourishment even though he's not eating super-well.
Tomorrow we are going to have to set his mattress on the floor because he keeps falling out of bed. (Even with the railing on.)
Here's some pics from today and yesterday:
http://picasaweb.google.com/ng.mangine/NicoAdjusting